I will admit to needing to lose a few pounds, twenty would put me where I want to be and make me feel better but I never thought God would use my weight and a precious preschooler to teach me about the tongue.
I was teaching the preschoolers and I had one of the four-year-old girls came up to me and gave me a big hug. As I basked in the hug, she patted my stomach, looked up at me with her gorgeous eyes and said, “You have a big tummy.”
I looked down at her, “I know have a big tummy but I’m exercising and trying to make it smaller.”
She must’ve sensed that maybe it wasn’t the best things she could’ve said because she looked up at me with a sadness on her face. All of a sudden, her face lit up and she smiled from ear to ear. She said, “Maybe you have a baby in there!” with an excitement that was almost contagious. Almost.
Everybody loves a baby, right? Maybe not when you don’t have one, you’re a tad overweight and almost fifty. I did a little worse about my “fat tummy” but I knew she was just trying to make it better. I laughed and told her, “Nope, no baby.”
I got to thinking about how many times we say something, sometimes without even thinking, and it comes across wrong. Then instead of really thinking about it, we say something else to make it better but in actual, we make it worse.
God reminds us to watch our tongue and to guard our mouths to keep us from calamity (Prov. 21:23) but He also tells us in Ps. 37:30 that The mouths of the righteous utter wisdom, and their tongues speak what is just.
She spoke to me in wisdom. In all honesty, my tummy is fat, yet she spoke it in such love that I could still laugh about it and take it to heart and do something to change. Let’s always watch what we say and when we do speak, make sure we speak in love.